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We’re all totally flawed and broken.

Wounded, wrong and totally awesome.

Trying to be Perfect

I wasted a lot of time trying to be perfect. But the definitions and requirements of perfect changed depending on who was looking.

I was always failing someone’s test, so I stopped playing.

I gave up trying to be… anything for others, and started looking to see what I could be for myself.

What I found was a deeply flawed and broken human being. But that was okay… Because we all are.

And the more I became gentle and patient and forgiving of my own failures and imperfections – the more I could feel that towards others.

(and don’t think for a second that I can do this 100% of the time… or even 50% of the time – it’s still a constant reminder and a struggle to be patient and forgiving and gentle with myself and others…)

I don’t care how perfect someone looks or acts or appears to be – I guarantee… we are all flawed and broken. Every last one of us. It’s a wonderful, universal truth.

The Myth of Completion

We’re never going to get to ‘done’.
We’re never going to be finished and perfect.

I used to think that as soon as I healed all my crap I could start living the life I always wanted… but it doesn’t just ‘stop’ and then everything’s AMAZING.

The healing and the learning and the failing and the mistakes and the trying again… IS the life.

It took me the first half of my life to get that. It took me the first half of my life to see the perfect amazingness of that.

Now I get to LIVE the second half knowing that we’re all crazy and f*cked up and beautifully perfect in our chaos.

Ahhhh…. freedom.

 
 

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There is no excuse for not being educated about the people who live in our own country. Adhering blindly to the homogeneous world view that we were fed growing up is not even trying to grow and evolve. Diversity is what peace on Earth looks like.

My life is far from bad – but I wanted to share how shame comes up for me in this life around body image.

I talk about schadenfraude, Chris Farley, first followers, dead people and stepping up to help and the people I want to have in my life. It’s a full plate.

SFS #2 Image & Identity and the conflict between image and truth.

Internet trolls suck. I get a little rage-y and vent my feels.

Life is mostly a mirror. Sometimes we recognize how the image we see reflects us… more often though, we don’t. It’s a blessing when it’s obvious. I love client calls. They are my very favourite thing in my biz. More than the art (gasp), I love to connect to women in transformation. That’s who my […]

I expect a good leader to be bigger than conflict – to open arms to all voices, not just those in agreement.

I’m tired of my internet and email getting clogged with petty tyrants and narcissists trying to pass as inspirational, even “spiritual” leaders.

Dozens of straight forward tips on how to keep happy that don’t require piles of cash, a fast car or a hot body.