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SFS #2 ~ Image & Identity

judgementTrick question – because I think it’s something we all do automatically without a conscious decision to do so.

I don’t even know if there is value judgement attached – we may just be categorizing people as we see them: pretty, tall, thin, fat, ugly, nice, funny, mean, shabby, crisp…

Recording description vs. assigning worth… but don’t those different words have inherently contrary values attached to them? Shabby doesn’t inspire confidence or capability and ugly is definitely a value judgement – and kind of a douchie one at that.

This is the long-standing conflict that I’ve fought internally since I was a child – the fight between stepping out into the world with my best foot forward and giving my best impression and the fact that appearances mean nothing in regards to a human beings’ worth and that for a segment of the population a fat person will always be a person of ridicule and incompetency.


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This was a big deal for me. Big for my career. Big for business.

Big for being seen.

Yay for success and being seen and accepting yourself for who you are instead of waiting to be thin or pretty!